Pursue the big picture. Although you and your ex may have past disappointments and present disagreements, set aside negative thoughts and feelings for your child. Look, instead, at the bigger picture and consider how it will affect him in the long run.
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Establish a good working relationship with your ex on behalf of your child. Talk early in the season about how you are going to handle special days and events.
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When transitioning from home to home, arrive on time and keep goodbyes short to avoid extra stress. If, in the planning stages, the conversation gets heated, stop and arrange another time to talk.
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Equally important, do your own communicating; avoid making your child the messenger. Call for a compromise. Focus your efforts on quality time rather than quantity of gifts. Be gracious with gift exchanges.
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Extend courtesies to relatives. Keep grandparents and other family members central in his life during the holiday season. Come with other family members or attend alone; this is not the time to introduce casual dates.
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Each parent should also be given time alone to interact with your child. For example, coordinate schedules so one parent takes him to the event and the other brings him home.
When parents of young children who have recently separated are willing to come together peacefully during the holidays, it gives their children the opportunity to experience the celebration as an intact family. It can be confusing for a child, who may already be dealing with reconciliation fantasy. Keep the time together fun, easy, and stress-free. Focus on your child, not on the relationship with your ex.
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Be a sounding board. Give your child the opportunity to discuss past holidays, if he desires. Most kids grieve the loss of an intact family with every holiday and at each stage in life. Be sensitive to this and keep an open line of communication so he can freely share his thoughts and feelings. The first few years after a separation and divorce can be the hardest time to enjoy the holidays.
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