May 13, Fanny Svensson added it. We've recently read this book in school and my personal opinion about the book is that it's a really good book for people in our age You really learn about different cultures and how the world can be for some people. This is happening all around the world, even in Sweden. For most of us Swedish people this is a weird truth.
Getting forced into a marriage when your seventeen is something we could never imagine, and by your parents. The only thing that I thought was bad about the book is its ending. The end now leaves you with so much unanswered questions but not in a good way. I strongly recommend it! Mar 02, Julie rated it really liked it. I really liked this book I found it quite an unusual twist on the general picture we have in the west of girls being forced into an arranged marriage. This book was about a young man Manjit who is told that on his 17th birthday he will follow the example of his elder brothers and have an arranged marriage.
Manjit has no intention of getting married until he is ready, and to a girl of his choice but he is being badly bullied by his brothers and his father, his mother is an expert in the art of em I really liked this book I found it quite an unusual twist on the general picture we have in the west of girls being forced into an arranged marriage. Manjit has no intention of getting married until he is ready, and to a girl of his choice but he is being badly bullied by his brothers and his father, his mother is an expert in the art of emotional blackmail, he seems to have no one, or where to turn to and the thought of getting married weights heavy on his mind, he stops concentrating at school and starts to get into bad ways, which obviously then gives his family more ammunition to get him married off.
He starts to see an English girl, Lisa in secret and she tries to support him to stand up against his family. He thinks he is getting somewhere when the whole family go on holiday to their family village in the Punjab and assure him that there is no trickery or ulterior motive, he starts to relax and enjoy a holiday meeting different relatives, but is this really just a holiday?
You really feel for the character of Manjit and sympathise with his predicament and at the end of the book you are really rooting for him. This book shows how difficult it is for some young people who are caught in the crossfire between tradition and culture according to their families and the tradition and culture of the country in which they have grown up and spent all their lives.
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(Un)arranged Marriage by Bali Rai
The book was easy and interesting to read as it describes the Punjabi culture and what traditions they have. I thought it was good to see the perspective from I man who has got forced into an arranged married. When I had read the book it changed my opinion for them who is really into their religion, the book showed that the religion and traditions is actually really impo un arranged marriage is really a fun and interesting book, it has everything from happiness to sadness, tragedy to humorous. When I had read the book it changed my opinion for them who is really into their religion, the book showed that the religion and traditions is actually really important for some people and you need to respect that.
I would like to believe that the author Bali Rai actually is the main character Manny. I really liked him, I like the way he acts, his attitude against the family and the way he sees the religion and the traditions. But I also feel sorry for him. He is 15 years old, He lived with violence his whole life and he does everything to avoid his home and his family. You should live your life when your 15 years old. I hope people who have the same problem as Manny really become influents and do something about it. Something that I reacted on was that the book only described the Punjabi culture like the worst culture you could live in.
May 04, Daniel Nestor rated it really liked it. Un arranged marriage is a great book created by Bali Rai. The book is really fun to read and is rally easy to get in to. The language is easy which makes it makes it even easier to understand. And the books subject is really modern and if you read it you will learn a lot about religion and arranged marriage. You also get to know how it is to be a Punjabi boy. Bali Rai has managed to connect the book to as many relevant topics that you can recognize in everyday life. When you are reading the boo Un arranged marriage is a great book created by Bali Rai.
When you are reading the book you get a personal touch with Manny and everything feels so genuine and real. The book manages to tell so many emotions and is exciting in every way. You can not stop reading it. The further you get into the book the more you want to read. But there will be a twist in the end that pulls down the rating of the book and that's the end.
I had hoped for a much better end but you can not always get who you want. But Manny is described as a brave young boy who stand their ground and do as he wants. He do not allows himself to be controlled by a religion, he is himself and that is what makes the book so exciting. Generally, the book gets a great rating from me. I really liked it. One of the better books I have read, that's for sure! View all 3 comments. Dec 02, Jenniesven rated it liked it. The book un arranged marriage, written by Bali Rai was very good. I find this book amusing to read and I enjoyed Bali's way of showing us the Punjabi way of living.
It was well written and easy to understand, even though there were many names that were quite similar to each other. From a readers perspective it is very good that the book is divided into four parts, making it easier to fallow the course of the book. When there were dialogs it was sometimes hard to understand because he wrote them The book un arranged marriage, written by Bali Rai was very good.
When there were dialogs it was sometimes hard to understand because he wrote them with dialect, which I find harder to read because of my lack of knowledge with the Punjabi way of speaking. The general theme in the book, I think, is respect and the fact that it is hard to change someone even if they are raised traditionally but do not feel the traditions. Throughout the book respect is the main thing that causes all the conflicts.
Manny, as the main character is called, shows us how hard it can be to break free from religion, tradition and your own family. In general the book was very good, but I would have liked if there would have been less names, more details in the end and a more detailed explanation on why Manny and Lisa broke up. But overall the book was good and I would recommend it to others, especially if they wanted something a bit challenging but still simple.
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Jun 13, Pam added it Shelves: I'm not getting married. Manny Manrit is 13 yrs old and is dreading his 17th birthday. The day he will be married -- prearranged by his parents in the Punjabi way. They all seem to have more ties to the Indian culture than he does. Manny, wants no part of this and rebels. However, still an enjoyable read and was happy to see Manny ultimately accepted more responsibility for his decisions, even if in hindsight -- his choice for independence was positive but he lacked senstivity for some of the innocent future inlaws, etc.
May 14, Gunnar Hansson rated it really liked it. In my opinion the book is very good, the book describe that some children in the world are not allowed to make their own decision. The book is also very good because before I read the book I was thinking that it was only girls who were married against their will but that was wrong I realized when I read the book. It is also great that the author really describe the situation Manny is in and when I read the book I really understand how difficult the situation most be for Manny, and how hard it mu In my opinion the book is very good, the book describe that some children in the world are not allowed to make their own decision.
It is also great that the author really describe the situation Manny is in and when I read the book I really understand how difficult the situation most be for Manny, and how hard it must be to get out of that kind of situation, because you do not want to break up the contact to your family no matter how horrible they are. I like that Manny can make his own decision now and his life is free. I also like that Manny will start to study in autumn. But I dislike the end when Manny has a new girlfriend called Jenny.
When I read that I became pist. I had hoped throughout the whole book that he will married Lisa in the end or something like that so I become real disappointed. May 14, Ellen added it. Unarranged marriage is about a boy named Manny who is deeply misunderstood by his parents and brothers. Luckily he gets well needed support from his girlfriend Lisa and best friend Ady.
According to me unarranged marriage is one of the best books I have read. You really can relate to the plot and it yields a better understanding of kids with a different religion and culture. I believe that the novel can help and give other kids hope to change their situation. A lot of kids born in a western country with foreign parents experience these kinds of problems. I also think it is good that the protagonist is a boy.
You do not hear so much about boys getting arranged marriages. This gives a different perspective on the matter. Except I do not think I would have waited so long to really break loose. I probably would have done it a lot faster. But that is easy to say as an outside viewer. Dec 03, Kajsa Eklund rated it really liked it. I think this book is very good, I really enjoyed reading it. It had a tough beginning, but when you read more and more it got more interesting and much better because it happened more than in the beginning.
The book is about an Indian boy, called Manny, who lives with his Indian family in Leicester, England. I also like the author, Bali Rai, he writes in a good way so that everyone understands. He is writing in both regular English, Punjabi and he is also joking with the characters India-English accent. He is using slang and informal language, which in my opinion is good because it makes the book more modern than a few other books.
In my point of view the ending of the book is really good, it is not the ending that you expect. There are a lot of themes and motives that you can discuss with for example your class or a friend. And I really recommend this book, because it takes up something that happens every day and everywhere. Apr 15, Gurkmaja rated it liked it Shelves: Unarranged marriage was a book which I found was very enjoyable. I do not usually like being forced to read books that someone else chooses, but this book gave me only positive impressions.
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The book is realistic, the reader gets to know a new and probably different culture. What is going on in the book is not something that the author has made up, what is going on in the book is something that is happening every day, all around the world. This was really fascinating for me, I really learned some Unarranged marriage was a book which I found was very enjoyable.
This was really fascinating for me, I really learned something. But in one way I think it was scary because I believe that every human has right to make decisions for their own. As I mentioned, I enjoyed the book, until the India part From that part and on it just felt like the whole story was dying slowly but safely. The whole thing was too obvious, too predictable.
I am totally convinced about that the author could have done more. Even the ending was a totally disaster on such a good story. Alright it was a happy ending, but still, it was too easy. Manny just ran off the wedding and then it was all ok. Imagine that Gollum would not have showed up when Frodo is going to throw the ring into the fire. How thrilling would that been? Because of the bad ending, the book gets 3 of 5 stars. Dec 03, Erik Larsson rated it liked it. I consider this book as a good example about the conflict between two cultures. The author was really good at giving the reader as much detail as possible of his family's culture and I personally had never heard of the Punjabi culture before.
I got to admit that sometimes I got really shocked over some happenings that damaged Manny deeply. I got a powerful reaction against Lisa's break up with Manny because she was the only thing that he cared about at that time and she just abandon I consider this book as a good example about the conflict between two cultures. I got a powerful reaction against Lisa's break up with Manny because she was the only thing that he cared about at that time and she just abandoned him. I did not however like all the repetitive facts and non-important details.
I kind of hated to read about all the times he just went for a smoke or stole something because it felt like the author just wanted to fill out more pages. But one thing I admired was all the different personas and behaviors!
The author did an amazing job with the variation of characters and their behaviors. I believe this book is aimed for the younger audiences because of the amount of immature language and slang words which are used. My expectations of this book after the prologue was pretty different compared to the ending. From my point of view the ending was to short and less serious than I wanted it to be. It felt like he just summarised his present Life with no satisfaction at all. Dec 11, Frida Karlsson rated it really liked it. The book Un arranged Marriage written by Bali Rai was, according to me, a really good book, and I would recomend everyone to read it.
It shows how it is to live in the Punjabi culture and I think I've learned a lot how that is now when I've read the book. The books main character is Manny, who lives in Leichter with his Indian family. He's just an ordinary teenage guy who plays football, hanging around with his friends and go to school.
He also have a girlfriend, Lisa, his lifesaver. But his fa The book Un arranged Marriage written by Bali Rai was, according to me, a really good book, and I would recomend everyone to read it. But his family doesn't know anything about their relationship. Because Mannys family is from India, they have the punjabi culture, and that means when you're seventeen, you have to get married to a nice punjabigirl.
It would be like Mannys death if he would come home and intruduce Lisa to his parents. In the book you also get to know Mannys best friend Adyand his girlfriend Sarah. You also read about how it goes for Manny in school, and also when he and his family is travelling to India and there Manny meet someone who's changes his life.
It wasn't booring like you didn't want to go on and keep reading. And also it wasn't hard at all to understand. You get a view how it is to live in the Punjabi culture and the differences with India and Leicter. Dec 03, Stina Emriksson rated it really liked it. The book caught my attention with its vivid storytelling about a boy getting forced into an arranged marriage. Manny has to m The book caught my attention with its vivid storytelling about a boy getting forced into an arranged marriage.
Manny has to make a decision and as a reader you get to follow his journey through this decision and what he is going to do next.
The cliffhanger is, what will Manny do? Is he going to get married and satisfy his parents or is he going to do what he wants out of life? You should get married because of love and to spend the rest of your life with someone you are in love with. The book was easy to read and easy to understand. There was some slang in it that made it even more interesting and directed to suit teenagers which I liked. The specific details painted such a vivid picture and made your imagination go wild. But it could also be a bit tedious because he explained everything in details all the time. Dec 03, Maja rated it it was amazing.
Manny starts working in a local supermarket in order to save money towards his escape. Manny and his friend, Adrian, devise a plan to trick his parents into thinking that he has changed his mind about the arranged marriage. They break up the wedding party in order to allow Manny to escape the marriage and be free from his parents, but he loses his family in the process.
There are several parallels between the author, Bali Rai, and the protagonist of Un arranged Marriage , Manny. Both are British-Punjabi Sikhs and grew up in the multicultural city of Leicester. Like Manny, Rai also worked in a supermarket. The novel received generally positive reviews, with The Guardian 's Kit Spring calling it an "absorbing and engaging first novel" and "highly readable".
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